The Inlaws!
So, I guess the wedding is over and all the guests have retreated to there humdrum lives outside of the festivities. Finally, we can see the true colors beginning to rear their ugly heads.Yesterday, I was "sat down" to discuss the issue of trust in our relationship. MAW was interested in talking about us and a particular problem that had come to his attention the night before. (I honestly don't know why he waits and entire day do tell me things. But is almost too much).
He proceeds to tell me that his sister had taken offense during a conversation we had three weeks ago regarding someting I allegedly said to her.
I am still pretty irritated with our conversation yesterday. I know
how much you dread dragging things into another day but part of me just wants to address this in the best way I know how and then I will feel comfortable letting
it go.1. The more I think about the issue with your sister the more irritated and offended I feel. Part of me wants to simply address the matter head on with her and let it go but I feel like without letting you know what my agenda is it would leave you wide open for the windfall, and that isn't fair either.
“My heart was in the right place, but....” It is all bullshit. My intentions and actions were very clear. It is my opinion that Donna has issue with me that she has marinated in for quite some time and although this discovery does peak my interest the more vengeful side of me would like to sharpen my teeth. She is not interested in clearing up this alleged problem, not interested in clarifying a miscommunication. I don't want you to get these phone calls or sit downs with your family to discuss my behavior. I don’t need you to translate for me or act as
referee, I can articulate myself just fine, I have two degrees in English to prove the same. If your sister was at all interested in salvaging or cultivating a relationship with me she would have been woman enough to say something directly to me. All that is left to assume that she was offended, but I find it hard to believe. It is cowardice to hide behind feigned emotions and pretend transgressions in attempt to win sympathy or favor.We both know my limited ability to handle the "feelings" of others especially the emotionally dependant. Your sister, and i will say it again, has too much time on her hands, and is entirely blinded to the issues present in her own home - let's not even start that.I feel angry that it took so long for this to get back to me. I would like to nip this in the bud but have been robbed of the opportunity. To snap at her would just make matters worse and i know at some point that there was a hope of having dinners in our home. I don't trust that will happen any time soon. I am most irritated that there has been an ongoing conversation about my alleged "transgression", I am most offended that this has been debated for such a long time. Three weeks and to not approach either of us about it is really annoying to say the least. Although I am hesitant to speak to her outside of your presence I really feel it imperative that I speak to her on this, at least to express my distaste in her method of “problem solving”.
I am too old for this shit and will not subject myself to the he-said-she-said
game. Talk to me...
posted by Onika @ 3:06 PM
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